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I'm just an average twenty something who believes in the finer things in life, but also enjoys the little things. I am currently residing in and around the Washington DC area. I love it. I was born in Seoul, South Korea and I really miss it. While in the states, I am an East Coast Girl all the way. Don't get me wrong, I love visiting the West Coast... just, having NYC, Washington DC, and Philadelphia so close together is amazing
Moving to New York I met guys, and that kind of put things in perspective for me. Because you know that thing when you see someone cute and he smiles and your heart kind of goes like warm butter sliding down hot toast? Well, thats what it's like when I see a store. Only it's better. You see, a man will never love you or treat you as well as a store. If a man doesn't fit, you cant exchange him 7 days later for a gorgeous cashmere sweater. A store always smells good. A store can awaken a lust for things you never even knew you needed. And when your fingers grasp those shiny new bags. Oh yes...Oh yessss

Wednesday, August 17, 2011

Trials and Tribulations of Dating when you're transexual

Part 2....

We made it through the movie, and we end up going to another bar for cocktails. One of his friends was in town so he met us at the bar. We had fun chatting and getting a little tipsy.... out of no where they ask if i want to go to a strip club.... well, okay... not really dressed for it, but it's okay....

so we get to the strip club and he seems really really sweet... we get bottle service and he's looking at me the entire time, making out... I thought we were clicking. About 2 hours later, we all decide to call it a night....I end up at Dan's apartment and we start watching a movie- that lasts all of 10minutes. we start making out and his shirt comes off and my jaw literally hits the ground. His body was A-Freaking-mazing. i pretty much orgasmed simply looking at him. once i gain composure, we head to his bedroom and continue to make out....

He gets me down to my bra and panties....he still doesnt know my status....so while he is on top of me, i push him back and say "hold on....i have to tell you something"

hes like "what?"

im say, "im transexual"

he thinks about it for a second and then he says, "well, you're hella cute, so its okay"

so i do my thing, i sleep over and leave the next morning.


Few days later, he mentions a double date that he would like to go on with me, his friend and a gf of mine. so, im like, "alright, let me ask around"

Couple days later, we hook up right before the double date....then we go on the date and yah... so, we go on the date... the friend i bring is extremely smart...i mean, she studied neuroscience. I felt so dumb. out of place. embarrassed. I just sat there while the 3 of them talked. I thought, "wow, i really do need to become more knowledgeable about issues"

Dan and I say our goodbyes to the other two and we head up to his apartment. again, I spend the night.....and yah...

So, basically a week goes by and we havent really spoken. he texts me that his freaking ex girlfriend would be staying with him for a few days in july while she finds a place of her own. It was late, and I read it as a few weeks. -___- so i text him and say that it would be best if i just dont talk to him for a while.

etc etc etc... whatever... weeks go by, in that time, i go to his birthday, we talk, etc... im so over it....oh well... i guess he just wanted to get it in..... fuck him... i mean, it was good while it lasted...his penis was a bit on the small side though.... lol

Tuesday, August 2, 2011

Trials and Tribulations of Dating When You're Transexual

I figured since I have nothing better to do and dating has been horrendous lately, that I would write my dates/experiences down for you to enjoy....

Part 1

So, one night, about 3 months ago, I was on a date with this guy who happened to be quite older than myself. Trust me, I was only in it for the free dinner. bahahaha....anyway, after dinner, we went to a fairly popular lounge/bar nearby. The guy I was with had to use the restroom, so I stood waiting, while I was waiting, this guy walks up to me and asks about me...I had to quickly inform him that I was currently on a date with another guy, but if he wanted, he could take my number. long story short, i told the guy i was on a date with at the time that i was transexual.....last date with him- not that i really cared.....

i think it was the next day, the guy who took my number(lets call him Dan) texts me that he wants to get together....I'm like, okay... what do I have to lose, right? so we decide to go for drinks for our first date. When we get together(I'm not intoxicated now), I see that Dan is friggin gorgeous. Like flawlessly gorgeous- out of my league gorgeous. We end up going to The Franklin... We talk about where we grew up, things we like to do, etc... it actually turns out that Dan grew up in the DC area as well. So, we are vibing, and feeling each other.... I mean, of course he's feeling me. lol.... but we both have to call it an early night. we say our goodbyes, and he gets me a taxi.

Next few days we are texting each other, etc.... and we decide to go to dinner and a movie. We went for mexican, and then to see the Hangover 2. It was pretty funny- Dan thought parts were hilarious, it was obvious because he would start cracking up. In the Hangover 2 there is a scene with a thai ladyboy which was a little uncomfortable, considering my status.....

Part 2 coming soon

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